It‘s a marvel and a blessing that human beings are able to set their own boundaries for their lives. It is essential for life-design. The ability to do this is less developed in some, but able to be developed further. In this post I will show how.

Order and chaos. Boundaries form the area in which chaos can ‘play’. Never include a ravine within the confines of your pig pen, for the obvious reason that your precious pigs are liable to fall into it and die. Never allow your boundaries to allow for engaging in behaviour that you yourself deem unhealthy. This is madness.

We are able to zoom out from our life map, assess where the healthy and healthy areas are, and set our boundaries for where we will allow ourselves to go. Not out of unloving self-control, but loving self-control.